Do You Know If Your Boyfriend Loves You? Watch For These Clues

By Makoo L.  

We all know that being in love is such a great feeling. Unfortunately, if you are not sure your boyfriend loves you it can leave you wondering what your next steps should be. Sometimes it looks like he loves you but you just cannot nail it down yet.

If you were sure your boyfriend does have feelings for you or is in love with you, you would be able to make a commitment to him. You may want to stay with him forever, but if he does not have the same feelings as you, you may be wasting your time with him.

If his feelings for you do not appear to be very strong now, you can still try to get him to love you. It may take some time but if you pay attention you can spot some clues that indicate if your boyfriend really loves you.

One is how well he listens to you when you are talking to him. If he is really listening to you, your conversation would not be one sided. He will care about what you have to say if he likes you instead of always casually paying attention.

If your boyfriend is in the habit of occasionally surprising you with small gifts that would be a good sign. This may be his way of showing his love for you; some guys find it hard expressing it in other ways.

Does he really know you? If he knows things about you such as details about your childhood, favorite foods and what makes you laugh, that would be a sure sign he cares enough about you to know these things.

How does he treat you? Of course treating you with respect would be important but also the little things are important too. Does he try cooking for you or go places with you that he might not normally go on his own? If he generally does things that make you feel good then he probably cares about you.

Has your boyfriend discussed the future with you? Especially when his future has the two of you together. If he did not love you he would not be making future plans with you, especially if he is talking about a family together.

The clues above are all good indicators that your boyfriend loves you, but remember your boyfriend may have a different way of expressing his feelings. He may display one or two of them which is good but the more he shows the better.