The Signs That Show a Shy Guy Likes You By Vivian Booth

The signs that show a shy guy likes you are sometimes hard to spot. Even socially challenged guys need love although many times these types of guys may have trouble expressing their feelings. A understanding of how these guys show affection can help you understand what is really going on in his head and heart.

One of the ways to tell if a shy guy really likes you is the way he looks at you. Or should I say they way he doesn't look at you. It can be down right maddening to see a guy who you are really interested in always look away when you catch him checking you out. You would expect a guy who is interested in you to at least strike up a casual conversation or at least acknowledge you with a smile or wink. This may be asking to much of guy that is not as social confident as other guys. Many times if you want to get to know him better you are going to have to make the first move. If you approach him in a non threatening manner and don't rush things he will begin to open up to you and you can get to know each other better.

Like it or not some guys are confused about how they are suppose to act. Relationships don't come natural to them and they either try to hard or they give up and don't try at all. If you are really interested in a shy guy be prepared to take the lead. At least for a while. Subtle signals will usually not work. You are going to have to encourage him to pursue you if that is what you want. As he gets to know you better he will began to initiate more things in the relationship but be prepared at first to give strong but non threatening signals about how the relationship should proceed.

The signs that show a shy guy likes you may be very subtle especially at first. Shy guys are not big risk takers and hate the thought of rejection. If you think a shy guy likes you chances are he has put much thought into wanting to be with you. He probably really likes you but is just afraid to step out and let you know his true feelings. If you like him as well take it upon yourself to let him know how you feel about him. He will then feel more comfortable with telling you his true feelings for you.

Shy guys can provide you with some of the best relationships if you can just help them get past their insecurity and inability to express themselves.