By Krista Hiles
Don't make a fool of yourself hanging on to a guy who is no longer interested in you. It will save you a lot of heartbreak and restore your pride if you break away in time and don't let him take advantage of you. Take note of these tips that will help you find out if the guy has lost interest in you.
He is not with you even when he is with you!
When you find that you can't hold his attention and he seems to be "floating away" into another world without taking you along, it simply means that his interest in you is waning. His mind is somewhere else and even though he is with you physically, he is not with you in spirit!
He starts to make excuses as to why he can't see you
When you notice that all of a sudden he begins to make stupid excuses as to why he can't see you or keep a date, it could be that he is losing interest in you or that he is already seeing someone else.
He starts criticizing you and finding faults with you
Have you noticed that lately you can't do anything right when you are with him? When he begins to pick on you mercilessly, and criticizes your hair, your clothes and your behavior it proves that he is irritated with you and does not care for you anymore. It would do wise to drop him quick!
He starts to withdraw and become cold
The moment he starts to lose interest in you he will begin to withdraw from the relationship and become cold and uncaring. Nothing you seem to say or do will move him and he will stop communicating with you. He will show you in a hundred little ways that he is no longer interested in you.
When he starts flirting with other women
If he has started losing interest in you he will automatically check out other women, flirt with them and even try to pick them up without giving you a thought! Check his behavior and body language. You will be able to pick up the signs easily. The moment you see him making eyes at another woman you should know that he does not care any more!
When he stops calling you
Has he stopped calling you and messaging you? If the calls have been few and far between and you are finding yourself sitting by the telephone praying that he gets in touch with you, then wake up! Don't call him and look at the clues - realize that he has lost interest in you.
When he starts ignoring you
Have you noticed how he has deliberately started ignoring you and paying more interest in your best friend? This could mean that he is trying to get the message across that he has lost interest in you and is now interested in someone else. Test him further and see if he refuses to talk to you and insists on talking to her! This will prove his disinterest in you.
