If you want a long term relationship with someone, did you know that one of the best ways to ensure that it happens is to delay sex? Are you thinking of having sex with your current partner for the first time but are having trouble deciding if it's the right thing to do? How long should you make him wait? Many women are confused as to when they should sleep with their new guy and how soon is too soon when it comes to sex. It you are seeking something serious and permanent, it can actually be a good idea to delay sex, at least for a little while. The following article will tell you why.
The moral debate has been taken out of a lot of sexual questions these days because more and more people are having casual relationships and flings. However, if you are seeking something more serious and long term then you might to delay sex, at least for a little while. Why? Because sex can cloud the issue at hand.
If you sleep with a guy right away, he might become confused about your intentions. He might start thinking that you are only after a casual fling, when in fact you want something more serious. He might even want something more serious but be afraid to tell you because he doesn't want you to reject him.
In addition, by making him wait you will be able to tell what his true intentions are. If he pushes you for sex right up front then that might be all that he wants. If he is willing to wait a little while, however, until you have formed a closer bond then it can let you know that he wants something more serious as well.
These are just a couple of things that you might want to think about when you enter into a new relationship. In order to attain longevity within a relationship, you have to have a good solid foundation. Sex is generally pretty weak. If you delay sex and forge a friendship first, however, you relationship has a better chance of lasting.
By Tina L. Jones
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