Sunday, July 19, 2009

Make a Guy Fall in Love - How to Make Him Open Up to You

Have you been frustrated before by a guy who seems to go back and forth between loving you and not loving you? Would you like nothing more than to make him fall in love with you? Have you asked him how he feels only to have him change his tune each time that you talk to him about it? Don't let yourself get too annoyed and whatever you do, do not give up if he is who you really want. Keep reading and learn how to make a guy fall in love with you and open his heart to you.

Women could ruminate forever on why guys just seem to resist the idea of falling in love so much more than we do. Is it because society teaches them that it is unmanly to be vulnerable? Is it because too many stupid movies have make them believe that marriage or long term girlfriends signal the ending of all of their fun? Maybe it is because they really are life forms from another planet where football and religion are one and laundry washes itself. Either way, you had better learn to play the game with them if you want to make a guy fall in love. But just what exactly does that mean?

First, understand that men move more slowly when it comes to love than women do. It takes them longer to realize that a girl that they have an amazing connection with just might be someone that they never want to lose. So try to relax and slow down with him. It will be far less frustrating for you to move to his slower pace than to try to drag him along at your quicker one.

Now, you want to be there for him, but do it without always being there. In other words, when you are with him, bless him with your undivided attention. He asked you out to spend time with you, so make it the time of his life. You can make a guy fall in love with you by making him feel that you will make him a top priority when you are together. Every guy wants to feel like they are amazing and fascinating and entertaining. If he thinks that you see him that way, it will sweep him off his feet.

By Tina L. Jones

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